Saturday, January 28, 2012

Psycho-Sexual Identity

and the search for Normalcy even.



- many out there, are truly in search always, for Normalcy in all truly. In many ways again, this truly refers to, the search for Calmness in all, as with knowing or expecting even, that only certain forms of problems/difficulties in all, will come ones way truly [and not having for example, to be bothered in all, by the Emergency in all too really].

In most ways again truly, this has to do, with ones Psycho-Sexual Identity [and as in how helpless truly, one believes themselves in all to be actually], and with learning in all again, how to deal with all this rather appropriately in all too really [and as with it even, hampering ones life in all, and through its various stages in all too even] [and as in the case, of an incident exposing oneself as truly even, Helpless actually, and in ones childhood too even, and hampering one truly in all, during their whole lives too even actually].

In helping many out there, deal with this rather possibly even, serious issue actually, is to know perhaps, what can be said, to constitute in all, Psycho-Sexual Identity actually. In many ways, it can be said to consist of, ones Internal Self, ones Sexual Identity, and finally even, ones Social Affiliations too even actually.

In speaking of ones Internal Self, is to in all again, speak of how one truly in all, is nervously 'wired' actually [and as with how nervous in all, one often gets really], and as with regards truly, to not only Official Communications in themselves, but also truly, with regards to our views and Beliefs even, on Sexuality, power (or Social Power too even actually), and finally, Money in itself too even really. In many ways, these Beliefs in all truly even, do hamper actually, not only how we perceive Reality in all truly, but also truly in all again, coming to define even, our Fears, Strengths and Weaknesses in most ways too actually [and as with the Internal Self identity in the past in all, shaped hugely even, by not only Regional Identities actually, but also truly, Folklore in all too really].

To speak of ones Sexual Identity, is to know in all, that today, its highly associated truly, with ones Public Communications skills in all actually [that in all, those who do feel brave speaking truly even, in Public in all actually, do also in all, feel rather even, Sexually Confident (and as with having Women even, naturally responsive to one in all too really)]. This again, is the key to seeing the difference in all, between the old World, and the Modern in all too actually. In the old World, one does find that, Sexual Identity in all, was truly tied too, ones Interpersonal Communications skills in all too actually [and as with one being able, to speak even, to someone somewhat privately, and in all again, as with regards, to sexual activity in itself too actually]. There is however, a rather interesting period in all this, and arriving with the Modern Times too actually [1910's - 1959], where in all again, one does find that, Sexual Identity in all, is tied to Group Communications actually [and as with a Group of Friends even, hanging out together in all, developing their own kind or form even, of Group Communications actually (as with a Dress code even), and Communications too, that do begin in all, to garner even, Sexual attention, and from Female Peers in all too actually (if not even, Law Enforcement in themselves truly)]. A way of developing Sexual Identity, today, still very common in the movies, and with most not knowing actually, that many a movie today, does actually speak of, how life in all, was truly like, in the 1910's, to the 1950's too actually. In all though, one should realize that basing ones Sexual Identity on Public Communications skills, is actually, a rather huge step back even, in Sexual evolution itself [and as with Public Communications skills in all, having truly come to stop being rather truly popular, and in the Egyptian times too even (unless of course, one could stand the mockery that ensued in all too really)] [In all, a rather very old way of living, where one attempted to look rather good in Public truly, rather than when all alone actually (and at home too even really), or even, at work in all too actually].



Finally though, you do have what they do term even, Social Affiliations in all too actually. These are in all, Social relations actually, that one in all again, can turn to, when dealing in all, with Survival Issues in all too really. In many ways, one does find that, these Social Affiliations in all, tend to take three main forms in all actually: Gender based, Race based or Colour based too even actually. To understand this better, is to understand for instance, how in the olden World, many a Man or Woman, sought to leave in all, their place of living/existence, and in search for a better life truly, by seeking out even, a suitable Spouse or Mate too even, inorder, to live with one in all actually [and in many ways too even, speak even truly, of highly Authoritarian Fathers in a Family in all actually]. One then sees again [and during the fall of Europe itself], efforts in all again, to turn the Western Hemisphere [Europe, North America, and South America too even], to places in all, inhabited by Whiteskinned peoples actually, while then again, Africa in all, is said to be associated truly, with Blackskinned peoples actually, and the rest of the World truly (including Asia in itself), said in all to house differing kinds even, of Brownskinned peoples in all too actually [and as with all this, based on the belief that, relations in all seen in these Worldly segments truly, are truly actually based on, Social Affiliations in all too really]. Finally again, and as with the Western World coming to be, one finds in all again, Social Affiliations in all, and of the Race kind too developing actually, as with associating truly, the Western World with Caucasoid featured peoples in all, Africa with Negroid featured peoples in all too, and finally the rest of the World in itself (including Asia), with those whose features in all, were intermediate, between Caucasoid and Negroid too even actually [and all this again, as with Social Affiliations in all too actually].

In many ways though, and as with the History of the Western World too even having come in all, to shape people in all, in a rather strongly Racial manner actually [and as with regards even, to Sensual/Sexual Identities in all too actually], is to propose for a better future in all even, Social Affiliations [Global in scope], based truly on, Colour divisions in all too actually. To make this clearer, is to state for many a helpless being in all truly [and as with this, psychologically adept even, at being a solution in all too really (and as with regards to Survival in itself actually)], that in all, the three main Colours seen in the World of White, Brown and Black, each have differing Homes in all even [and as with regards truly, to Colour based Consciousness in all too actually (and which in many ways even, did still define Western life, even when Facial Features had become the norm in all, in truly defining people in the Western World, and in just about every manner too actually] [and with all this, having come to shape Human Consciousness rather strongly even, but truly in all, creating divisions, as based around Skin Colour mainly in all too really (and divisions even, rather truly actually, hard to heal in all too really)]. In many ways truly, for Whiteskinned peoples (White & 'Pale White'), feeling rather Helpless in all [as with Sensual/Sexual Identities too even actually], is to advice even, that Canada in all, truly be viewed as Home actually, where they can truly again, feel rather accepted in all, and as they truly are in all too actually [and a place in all again, where they won't feel judged, and can simply be themselves, and even choose, to complain all day if they so wish to actually]. For Blackskinned peoples, Tanzania in all, was proposed in the past, as a place even, where Blackskinned peoples in all, can truly go to, and feel free rather naturally even, and as with it even truly again really, viewed naturally, as a home of a kind in all too actually [and speaking too even, of being free, as with acting/behaving, as one pretty much wants to in all actually]. For Brownskinned peoples, Iraq in all, is truly adviced, as a natural home even [and as with its Nature too even actually], where one in all again, can be free, to truly freely Express themselves in all [as with ideologically even], as they so wish to actually [and as with stating truly again, that while all these places are based on Colour divisions, their internal divisions in all, are to be Race based in all too really (as with the French in all, still pretty much so in Canada, and as compared even, to the Bavarians in all too actually)].

In all again, a way truly best believed, to help deal with the rather heavy even, Skin Colour in all, divisions, that the Western World did create, and as with these divisions in all again, have come even, to rather strongly shape, Human Consciousness in all too actually [and as with the old World in many ways too even, truly dead, due to all this too actually].


The Western World [and Human Consciousness]: