This edition, of, 'Relationship Design with Cindy Crawford', takes a view, of history itself, by attempting to show, how, Relationships in past, Eras and Times, and in different, Regions of the World, have very much, functioned. We shall herein, take a journey into, the past, and attempt in all, to show, the masses out there, what they have truly, lost, with regards to, creating Relationships. That in all really, we live in a highly, Sexualized World, where, Relationships, have taken a back seat, to everyday Sexual activity, with the end result being, the very degeneration, of civilization itself [a condition, which if continuing in nature, will probably, lead, to the total collapse, of, Civilization itself, as in, most ways, Relationships all over, the World, have in all, ceased, to exist].
Many out there, believe that, Relationships, are the one and all, in, Life today. That even, Success means nothing today, in that, a man, not married, or in, a Relationship, could be, successful and wealthy, but still, looked down upon, for not, being, in, a Relationship. Many though, fail to realize, that, there is a cruel, game, being played out here. A game [targeted towards men really], that states publicly, you have, to be a Success, before, you enter, a Relationship, but privately though, thoughts linger actually, amongst most men, that you have in all, to be, in a Relationship, before, you, seek out, Success [a need, by many men, to be, pampered, by women based on, having, a condition, known as, 'Mamas boy' syndrome]. A game, most men, will truly, never win, and their only chance, of being, free, is to understand [and know], the true nature, of, Relationships themselves [as with how, they work really], and once, this is known, the pressure, of, wanting, to be, in one, recedes in all [in all, this prevalent condition, is what, in many ways, has led, to, economic issues, in many parts, of, the world, as most men, don't attempt in all, to seek out, Success, due, to the complex nature, of, 'Mamas boy' syndrome] [A kind, of recursive thinking state, with no, stop to it, entered into, when, one, attempts to, do, just about, anything, they subconsciously, believe, is forbidden].
The nature, of Relationships here, will be, based on, four basic divisions: Relationship Formats [or what, some call, socio-political order], Relationship Designs [or what, some call, socio-economic order], Relationship Forms [socio-religious order], and finally, Relationship States [or simply, social order]. Of these four, Relationship Orders, only, Relationship States, is well known [as it is in all, associated with, the general way, in which, most, Relationships, work today], and Relationship Designs [which is all about, money issues, in, a Relationship].
In this Deluxe Edition, of 'Relationship Design with Cindy Crawford', we shall take, a look at, Relationships, and their, functionings [as with the past times really], from all over, the World, and in many ways, attempt, to show, how just, dysfunctional, the World is, today, due to its, basing, of Relationships, mainly, on, Sexual activity.
Relationship Formats (socio-political order):
Relationship Formats, in all, speak of, how just Relationship, themselves, actually, function [in all]. That for many today [men and women], the rise, of Feminism, has in many ways, led to, a collapse, in the, socio-political, order, of Relationships, leading, in many ways, to, Relationships, which overtly, favour, Women, as with the, Law itself. We shall attempt, to show, the masses, in different Regions, of the World, in, a basic manner, just how, Relationships, in their Regions, have functioned, in the past.
North America: Equals
The belief, or concept really, of having, men and women, as Equals, in a Relationship, actually stems, from, North America. A belief today, falsely associated with, sharing duties, or even, powers [as with, disciplining children], in a, Relationship. The model, has in many ways, failed to, work, as it does in the present, as both, men and women, actually play today, a role, in performing, all kinds, of activities, alternatively. In the past though, men and women in North America, actually did, everything, together [as equals, or even, twins]. From making, the bed, to cooking, breakfast itself, and even, simply, watching TV together. In all, what this did, was make, the man and woman, pretty much, the same, in how, they, did things, as the issue, of, Equality, in North America, between men and women, has always been, with regards to, how, they do things [and not, how, they act (as the debate, today, is all about)]. As a result, of doing things, together, a general culture, of, sharing erupts, and it is from, North America, where the belief that, a man and woman, share, just about, everything [including, socks, and even, bank accounts], stems from. In many ways, a Relationship Format, where, the men, and women, live, together, in one, big house [and paying off too, a mortgage].
South America: Lovers
South America, is where in all, the general belief, that, a man and woman, in a Relationship, should be, Lovers [as seen, in, magazines, and even, romantic fiction], stems from. A Relationship Format, many assume, to be, rather Western, and also, somewhat believed [falsely], to be, rather prevalent [even, in, a, Feminist society]. The world of Lovers, is whereby, each, calls, on the other, when they, need, a problem, solved [in all ways and manners]. Otherwise, when there is no problem, to be solved [including sexual], the man and women, are, pretty much, separate, and away, from, each other. In many ways, the figure of speech 'the man in my life', is acquainted, with, this, Relationship Format, and in general, speaks of, a man/person, called really, to help, deal, with any issue, that, arises, that the woman can't in general, deal with [especially, as emergencies]. Both men and women, get closer, to each other, based on, problems faced and solved, as in all, with this Relationship Format, both the man, and woman, actually, live separate, from, each other. In the end, when a body of Knowledge, has been, accumulated, on solving, various problems, the man and woman, simply, remain friends [meeting, once or often, for, a dinner or two].
Europe: Consorts
In Europe, Relationships, are rather, misunderstood, as in many ways, they are, believed, to be, like what, you see, in, the movies. In reality though, in Europe, men and women, in a Relationship, are always, Consorts [of one kind, or another]. In general, this means, they are, what, some call, 'buddies', rarely, ever talking, about themselves, but simply always, about, others (the world at large), and the person, in, the Relationship, with them. Consorts in all, are kind of, Friends, close, but still, private, as with really, crossing boundaries [one should in general, know, what, to talk about, or not]. In this Relationship Format, the man, both, lives, alone, and also, once in a while, with, the woman. As in all really, its a Relationship Format, where, the man, and woman, seek out, often, their own, space, or time away really, from, the Other. After some time, when probably, having, been away, and, something new, to talk about, does exist, the couple, come back, together, to spend time, with each other [in all, both the man, and woman, should be outwardly, as with, having, something happening, in their lives]. In all really, both the man and woman, seek out, intelligent/creative mates, to be with, and problem solving, is always, of, the advisory form [the men and women, each solve, their, own problems]. The end goal, is to ensure, that, the humour [intelligence/creativity], in the Relationship, never does, die off [the man, and woman, are not, overtly (or even, openly) Sexual with each other, and even, at times, might have, different, mates, for sexual activity].
Africa: Partners
Relationships in Africa, have always, been, based on, Sexual Themes [in all]. Relationships, appearing, to be, Humorous, but actually, Sexually inclined, as, conversations in them, do question, ones intelligence, as with, sexual overtones. Not an easy, Relationship Format, to explain, but one commonly known of, as it speaks, of, 'Cycles in a Relationship' [the ups and downs, of, Relationships] [Very modern way, of viewing, Relationships]. In most of the World, these ups and downs, speak of, taking ones, Relationship, sexually, to the next level. In Africa though, these ups and downs, were often, met [and dealt with], using, a Sexualized Humour, based heavily on, Joking, Riddling, and, Puzzling another [in all, Jokes, Riddles and Puzzles, in, a Relationship, were actually, how the man, and woman, related, with each other (as in, acting, sexual, but jokingly)]. When the man, and woman, had known each other, rather well [as with, Jokes, Puzzles, and ,Riddles], they in many ways, went, separate, from each other [as with, old age, or, even, divorce].
Middle East: Nuptials
Relationships, in the Middle East, falsely presented, in, the Media, are actually, of, the Nuptials kind [of Conventional Marriages/Weddings, as seen, in, the Byzantine world]. Relationships, in many ways, where, each member, attempts, to present, themselves, as perfect (in all), but with time, one realizes that, their rather, beautiful spouse, is, in all, not perfect, at all [as with cooking perhaps]. In all, a game, of attempting, to, figure out, another, as, each does present, themselves, perfectly, and in all too, a game, where, if any, of, the members, slips [and shows imperfection], the other, gains, an upper hand [including in general, a poorly cooked meal]. In many ways, the world, of the rights, of men and women [as with marriage rules], and the world too, of, the Church vs. the State [as the Church, is often, called in, to, moderate, these Relationships], and also in all, often, strongly, associated, with, the world, of, Societal problems [domestic violence, family problems (as with relatives), spoilt children, and even, Government interference (in the marriage, as with higher taxes)]. In the end, the goal in all, is not, only, to seek out, perfection, as with, the marriage [Societal problems], but also, perfection, with each, of, the members, in it [as with, marriage rules].
Asia: Mates
In Asia, the goal of Relationships [as with Formats really], has always been, about, self-improvement [in one form, or another]. Self-improvement, on how really, one, should basically, present, themselves, in the world, and also, too, attain maturity, due, in all, to the, rather, prison-like, nature, of, Asian marriages [a model actually, rather also, popular, around, the World today, as, with, the higher classes]. In many ways, unknown to most, Women in Asian, marriages, do have, lots of Power, as one, of the goals, in, the marriage, is to root out, any, affections, the man, might have, for, their mother [or even, any, other, known, female figure]. The women in many ways, do create, prison-like environments, where, the man, is in many ways, made, mature, such that, in the end of it all, the man, is actually, envied [and desired too], by, other women, in society. It is too, for the man, to know, if, the woman, in his life, is, tyrannical in nature, as with the belief, that, women, always know, whats, right, for all. In many ways too, the woman, seeks out, the best, for herself, by attempting, to, rise above, the, wisdom, instilled, into her, by, her mother [and the, dread, by, some women, of, becoming, exactly, like, their mothers] [In all, the attempt really, by the woman, to raise, up, an, enviable family (world of, very well, mannered children), and, including too, as with, regards, to, wealth accumulated].
Relationship Designs (socio-economic order):
Relationship Designs, in most ways, speaks of, Money issues, and in general, how, couples in all, seek, to deal, with, this, very matter [issues too, of, survival, in general].
North America: Enterprising Personalities
It is North America, where the belief, that, a man and woman, should own, an Enterprise or two, to supplement, any, other form, of, income, they may have, so as to in general, retire early, and, live, a comfortable life [arises from in general]. In many ways too, the world, of, Robert Kiyosaki, and in many ways really, the goal, is, to retire, as early, as possible, with, enough money, in the, Bank, to enable one, to, live life, rather, comfortably. In many ways too, the end goal, is, to sell, the Enterprise (or two), and one, finds that, the world, of, Enterprises, is one, heavily based on, Credit Funding [as with, Family members, or even, a, prominent Businessman, in the region]. In all, the world of Enterprises too, is that, of, Human Resources management, as, succeeding in such business, is highly, based on, having, the right, people, working with one ['The Apprentice' style].
South America: Business-minded Folks
In South America, as with Success [and not Victories, or Legacies], a man and woman, as Lovers, and, in a committed, Relationship, come together, to, start, a Business. The Business of course, sets out, to, solve, a probably, well known, problem, in a community/city/Country [as with Garbage disposal perhaps], and, the whole goal, of, all this, is, to expand, the Business, as much, as, one, truly can [hopefully, across, borders, to the acclaim, of, a News Media (sometimes, overzealous, as with, 'Argentina' perhaps, taking, over, the World)]. The world in all, of, Business Management, and, Banks [and profit levels, and, bankruptcies too].
Europe: Entrepreneurs
In Europe, traditionally, both Men, and Women, have, managed, their own, Affairs [as with, Money issues]. In general, it has been, a Taboo, for, the man, to ask, the woman, for, any, money, and having, money problems, could, cause, the Relationship, to dissolve [in all]. The world of Entrepreneurs, is not, only one really, of making, money, but actually, of, seeking out, fame & acclaim [as with, producing, a hugely, popular, music act, writing or publishing, a rather, popular book, or even, selling or making, a wine, that, proves, to be, rather too famous]. The whole goal, is not, about, the money made, but, the adventure sought out, and one, which one, can look back to, as with, gloating perhaps [and even, openly, boasting, about it by telling, white lies, with regards, to, attaining, the success (as with claiming perhaps, that one, used to, sleep, in a, dumpster, before making it)]. In many ways too, the whole goal, of the man, is to impress, the woman, in his life, with, his success, while, the woman, seeks in some ways, to be, the only person, in the whole country, ignoring, the man. A whirlwind life in all, as Success, can bring about, the, wrong choices in life, as with choosing, another, woman, erroneously [and in general, not knowing, how, European women, can make, or break one, simply, by the way, they relate, to one]. In all too, the world, of, Venture Capitalists.
Africa: Investors
The world, of Investing, is in many ways, rather, strongly acquainted, with Africa, despite, the fact, that most, don't associate it, with, Wealth [in any form]. In Africa, a man and woman, seek out, business, opportunities, to Invest in, by, taking advantage really, of, any opportunity, that, arises [as with influx, of people, into, a place, and the, building, of, rentals, for them]. In many ways too, the world, of, making, right decisions [as with Investments], and highly, acquainted too, with the world, of, Finance, and even, Managerial Science [as with, finding/using, the best quality, lowest costing, Human Labour]. In many ways, a world, rather Political in nature [as with Multinationals perhaps], as the Employers, have to, cater for [and care even] for, their employees [perhaps, even, with housing, and food]. In the African past, Investment, was highly, associated, with Agriculture, and in many ways too, the world, of, Import-Export [a rather, political world, as with, importing, food, from outside, ones world, and in general then, becoming, a, political figure, than in many ways, can, influence, real politics, in ones region]. In all, most, successful Africans, in Investment, eventually, do seek out, a place, in, Politics [in all, the goal of, African couples, is to, become, politically, reknowed, in one form or another].
Middle East: Self-Employment
The world, of Self-Employment, is heavily, misunderstood, as it often, signifies, running, a small scale, operation, as with the case, of, what, some call, a business front, or even, a store. In the Middle East though, the world, of, Self-Employment, is highly, associated with, the world, of Innovation. In many ways, this refers to, the world, of Industry itself, as one, looks at, any developments, in just about, any, Industry [from Tourism, to, Semi-conductors, and even, Mining], and seeks, to bring about, Innovative change [the world, of, Lasik Eye Surgery, Dreamworks, and even, Dell Computers]. In most ways, this 'Industry', is highly, associated, with, Knowledge accumulation [and development], as the most, important resource, that, one has, is, ones Knowledge, of, the Industry itself [as with, becoming, an Authority in it], and also especially, Knowledge, on how, to run, ones Agency, in the best, manner possible [as with, spending money, equipment used, and, even, Clientele]. In all really, in the Middle East, men and women, don't really, talk, of money issues, and each, actually, has, their, very own, Bank Account. In many ways, this model, also works, in, the Middle East, as it is, heavily based on, Government funding, with regards to, any Innovation discovered [unlike, in the Western world, where, it is based, on, Credit Card funding].
Asia: Government Employment
In Asia, work, has always been, in, the form, of, Government [and never, Private Industry, as many imagine]. For a man, and woman, in Asia, traditionally, life, was very, much, based on, running, a Government owned business. In all really, the Government, provided, for all, the funding, and assets needed, to get started, and the man and woman, simply, ran the business, to the best, of their ability. As the business grew [by working hard, and, working smart (few mistakes made)], the man and woman, gained, a larger, stake, in their business [as shareholders really], and, competition, was encouraged, by, the Government, based on, all sorts, of, Incentives [such as, better housing, chauffeured cars, special gifts, or even, free vacations in all]. In many ways, the goal of the woman, was to, ensure, that the business owned, became, the most, prosperous, of them all, and for the man too, the goal in all, was, to become, a reknowed even, top, Government Official [and in many ways, influencing, Industry/Government, as with, how, they, were run (as even, with, publishing, a seminal paper, on, Government itself)].
Relationship Forms (socio-religious order):
Relationship Forms, in all, has to do, with, how, a Relationship progresses, from, its infancy, to, its very end [as perhaps, with, old age itself]. In many ways, the main reason, why, a couple, of any kind, seeks, to, stick together.
North America: Socialites
In North America, once, a couple, eventually does, own a Home, make lots, of money, and even, luckily, retire early, they then, seek, in many ways, to become, Socialites. They in most ways, don't, only seek to be reknowed in their home regions, but across, the, country even, and even, outside it. In many ways, a life, lived around, friends, and in all too, enjoying it, as much, as, one can [in many ways, many, operations (of all sorts) in America, tend, to be, systematized, as with, Business Processes (and the world, of, Management Systems, replacing, workforces)].
South America: Acolytes
The word Acolyte, often taken to be, rather, religious in meaning, instead here, does signify, a person, deemed, in most ways, an expert [of a kind], in, an area, of sorts. For South Americans, the goal, of a man and woman, has always been , to, own, a hugely, successful Business, that will in all, allow the, to, live and travel (around the World), as they, so wish [the culture, of, having, several homes, and traveling, all over, the World]. In many ways too, the man and woman, seek, to become, experts, in their Business Field [or, related endeavours], by writing perhaps, all, kinds, of books, or even, articles, and even, holding, seminars, to help, others in general, learn, something new [of a kind]. In many ways too, the man and woman, do live, separate lives, and, are brought, together, mainly, by their children.
Europe: Celebrity
In Europe, not only, do men and women, seek out, to become, Financially Independent [as in, having money sources, one, can live off from, forever] [often at times, in, the form, of, copyrights, trademarks, and even, trade secrets], but they also, seek, to become, socially reknowed [as in, having, others, come, to like them, strongly]. In many ways, they seek, to become, celebrated figures [for their lives (as lived, and even, as perhaps, having, done, something silly once), to even, the success, achieved, in all (as with too, the number, of women, loved)]. In many ways, a world, of regrets, as with, missed out on, opportunities, and one even, of, being fooled, by, the Gods [as especially, with, the Greek Gods]. A difficult life in all, as it is usually, towards, the ending years, that, a man, and woman [who have been, consorts], fall strongly, in love (with each other), bear children too, and in all, live, a life, totally driven, by Love itself [in many ways, the goal, is to attempt, to claim, that, one, did in fact, outlive, Giacomo Casanova] [Italians in many ways, have often, trumped other, Europeans, in this area, of, Celebrity].
Africa: Figureheads
In Africa, a life lived, is in, most ways, rather, political in nature [as with, Rise, and Falls]. In most ways, the goal, of a man and woman, is to rise, to, the top, of, any, Political Institution really, and in many ways, rightfully, rule over, it [as with, perhaps, a, Family Dynasty] [In Africa, making wealth, is not, that simple/easy (due to politics), and once made, must be, protected, in a, rather, military like, nature]. In all, a life, lived around, politics [as with, seductions, and even, killings], and in all, attempting, to hold on, to, ones wealth [in an Africa, where, even Wives, are rather, treachorous], and in all, make it, to, the top, of, the Political Sphere.
The Middle East: Private Life
In the Middle East, the goal, of, any couple, is to, in general, attempt, to ascend, all forms, of, problems, such that, ones life, ceases, to have, any problems, of any kind. In many ways, the world, of lessons learned, as with, perhaps, having lost out [and not missed out], on, all forms, of, opportunity [as with, making, the wrong choices, at the last minute]. In many ways too, a life of applying, lessons learned, in ones, family life, to, outside it, and vice versa, as with, remembering really, ones, growth, in intelligence, creativity, and, religiousity. In many ways, a life, lived, with Intelligence really, mainly based on, ones, work life, Creativity, based on, raising, a family, and Religiousity, with regards, to, ones marriage. Growth in all these areas, finding peace, and simply, choosing, to enjoy life, simply [as with, even, around, ones children], until, ones, demise.
Asia: Family
For Asians, ones lifepath, is in many ways, strictly, centered, around, Family, and in many ways too, as based on, Traditions [adhering to them, practising them all, and even, adding, to them (with the help, of, the Ancestors)]. Traditions in all, that speak of, new ways, of living, required, as with growth, and in all really, maintaining, Family stability, to ensure, that, life, is well [and grand], for those, who, return, for, another lifetime.
Relationship States (social order):
Relationship States, speak of really, how, men and women, in general, enter, into, Relationships, with each other. The world, that existed, before, the rise, of, Internet Dating.
North America: Dating
In North America, men and women, enter, into Relationships, via, what is popularly, known as, Dating. Simply asking, a woman out [even (a) man too, perhaps], and going out, on, successive Dates, to discover, if, they have, any, similar interests [as too, with being, interested, in each, other], and finally, hitting it off, when, the interest levels, reach, a, certain peak [this hitting off, is often, followed, by, the shacking up, with each, other, and planning, for a life, together].
South America: Engagements
For South Americans, theirs, is a world, of, a chance meeting, with a man/woman, considered, beautiful, and in many ways, becoming, infatuated, with them. This infatuation, leads actually, not to, pursuing them, but, following them, around, in the hopes, of, meeting them, again, and probably too, getting, a phone number, or even, home address, they can, be, contacted at. This eventually, leads, if lucky that is, to, asking, the other, for, an engagement, as with, taking, in, a movie, or even, simply, having, a dinner together [where the man, attempts, to portray, intelligence]. After a few, such engagements, the man, leaves of [in general], and the woman, is supposed, to, follow through, in return, if, in general, interested, in, the mans advances [a world really, where, a man, might discover themselves, to be, having, a relationship, with, a woman, and her friends (as counselors)]. A difficult scene, as it is, highly regulated, by timing, and not really, knowledge.
Europe: Party Scene
In Europe, meeting men and women, has always been, associated, with a Party Scene, that one, must get, invited too. A Scene really, where, all parties [and especially men], are supposed, to, act, as natural as possible. In all, one is supposed, to act, intelligently, creatively, and even, funnily, in an, offhand manner, and in, general, do, or say, something, of interest [or funny], which in all, arouses, the interest, of, a female, figure. In all really, one is supposed, to be, invited, to as many, Parties, as possible, and eventually, strike up, the Friendship, of, a Female figure, deemed, of interest. A world really, of rivalries, jealousies, and even, brawls (as with, invitations perhaps) [and gave birth too, to, the Night Club scene].
Africa: Pursuits
Africa, is the continent, that gave birth, to, the world, of, pursuing people, of, interest to one, all over. In general, the world, of running up, to, a person, on a street, and attempting, to talk to them, in making them, in general, notice one. A rather, political world, as these, pursuits, can involve, having, another, put pressure, on, the woman of interest for example, to in general, give one, a chance, or, even, a try. A world, disliked, by those, who don't, know/understand it, as it in, general, involves, the woman 'playing hard to get', and the man, attempting, to act, as 'smooth', as possible [as with, attempting, to outclass, the woman, pursued]. It ends, with the woman, either agreeing, or, a political situation [involving, friends, family, or even, the police], arising [if the man in general, does not back off]. In many ways too, the world, of wondering, if, the other, actually, likes you, or, is using you, and even, the world, of, secretive relationships [as with, Class issues, and even, secret pursuits].
The Middle East: Special Interests
The world, of showing, a high interest, in, another, by showering them with, all forms, of, gifts, or even presents too, does originate, from, the Islamic/Byzantine, world [a world, of men and women, supposed, to show, exemplary class/attitude]. In most ways, the more expensive, and, high quality, the gifts/presents are, the better, the impression, made. In many ways too, the world, of, proper choices, as, rejection, can have, serious consequences, or ramifications too, in other areas, of, ones life. In many ways, a world, of competition [as with gifts, and presenting oneself too], as losing out, can lead, to, losing out, with, other women in general. A world, of making, the right choices [as with gifts/presents], choosing the right words, and even, acting, with confidence, at all times.
Asia: First Impressions
In Asia, where contact, between, men and women, is often, limited, to occasions, both men and women, attempt, their best, to make, the, very best, of, First Impressions. In many ways too, the world, of, 'Love at First Sighting' [as with, the second sighting, might have, one, changing, their minds (as perhaps with, having seen, the other, from, a certain angle only)], and in all, attempting, to ACT really, funny, or even, intelligently, or even, funnily/silly, and in all, attempt too, to develop, a strong, friendship, with the other, such that, when, the time, for marriage, does come, asking for their hand [officially that is], becomes, rather easy. In many ways, one should attempt in all, to make, favourable impressions, all over, as this, in many ways, helps deal, with the control, of, sexual urges, as in many ways too, Asian civilization, does ask, that one, remain, celibate, until, ones marriage [as 'Gods', can quickly, become, sexually immoral]. In all, being always watched, by women in general, as with, slips, and even, Culture too, and the general culture too, of men, in general, acting, overly (if not, overtly), as if, not interested (in women), or failing even, to in general, notice, women [and instead, have them, notice you].
Regional Contacts:
This section, in many ways, does not, attempt, only, to explain, how, Regional Contacts, between, Regions of course, worked, but in many ways too, how, different peoples, of, a civilization, should relate, to each other. In many places, of the World, one finds, those, with white, brown, and, black skins, living, in, the same place. And while today though, people, with white skins, are, viewed, as being, good looking, or not, good looking, they historically, have been, viewed, from the perspective, of, Culture [and even, Hair]. Brown skinned people, are viewed today, from, the perspective, of, being funny, or not, funny, but traditionally, have been, viewed, from the, perspective, of, Religion (as even, with, etiquette, and manners) [Religion, since the old days, has always, been, associated, with, brown skinned people (and not, black)]. Black skinned people, while viewed today, as being, nice, or not nice, have traditionally, been, viewed, from the perspective, of, Order [knowing it, as with, being, of general intelligence (meaning, quick in thought/knowing, quick in understanding, and even, quick in comprehension)]. Today though, there is also, a general pattern, of, associating, Blackness with Religion, Whiteness with Order and 'Browness' with Culture.
When it comes, to Regional Contacts, between, Regions, an old model, based, very much, on, the Byzantine/Islamic world, is often, used today [that of, classifying folks, visiting, from another Region/region, as, Visitors, Guests, Residents, Travelers, and even, Foreigners]. And while, Relations [diplomatic in nature], do exist, between, Regions, as based on, 'World History', other more important, contacts, have always, existed, based on, two things, covered, under, the 'Mind Frames', entry [Areas of Confluence & Dimensions]. A third form, of relating, with others, from around, the World [as with, North America & the World], is based on, Cultural Identities, and in many ways, deemed, rather more, suitable, for the World, than that, in place, today [of Visitors and Guests].
In most ways, relating, based on, Dimensions [Mind Frames], is the kind, of relating, actually, associated with, Drama [the Dramatic], between, different Regions , of the World. Some of that, often seen, in, the past, was:
North America & South America:
Today though, replaced, by, 'North America' and Mexico [a history, of, warring, wars, and even, feuding].
Europe & East Asia:
Rather similar, with regards, to, all forms, of, Dramatic events.
[One should realize that, this relating, is between, individuals, or even, small groups, and, in all, means that, few, entry restrictions, should, be imposed, on, these people].
The Middle East & Afrique:
Members of Afrique, and, the Middle East (especially, Oman and the UAE), have had, a, general culture, of, crossing paths, and, starting, small fights, with, each other.
Africa & South East Asia:
Members of South East Asia, and Africa, have often, had, serious problems, with each other, from exploitation, to, intermarriage issues, and even, religious issues.
When dealing, with Areas of Confluence, Italian, was proposed, as, the Language, of choice, and this, in many ways, is all about, meeting, with, close friends [from all over, the World], and choosing, to relate, in, Italian, rather than, English [with Kenya (as a Land), chosen perhaps, as, the best, destination, for such meets].
The issue, of Cultural Identities, was chosen, as, the best way, for, the World, in many ways, to, engage with each other, from, the perspective, of, doing Business, or even, simple, Cultural ties [again, with Italian, as, the Language, of choice].
[In all, it is proposed, that Markets (as with Market Theory), best operate, based on, Italian]
The Islamic world, is one, where, its peoples, have best, met, under, the old forms, of, relating, as with, Guest, or, Visitor, and alot, of, the Infrastructure, associated with this, is seen, today. In many ways, the Islamic world, lies dormant, due, to its not, having, a true Language, to use, in, relating, with each other. It is perhaps, believed best, that, the Language, of Islamic Spain [Andalusian Spanish], be used, for this, as with uniting, all the members, of, the Islamic world [Andalusian Spanish, is very much, a Tongue, like, Arabic, and not, a true Language, like, Castilian Spanish].
*Special thanks, to Cindy Crawford, for putting in, the extra hours*
Many out there, believe that, Relationships, are the one and all, in, Life today. That even, Success means nothing today, in that, a man, not married, or in, a Relationship, could be, successful and wealthy, but still, looked down upon, for not, being, in, a Relationship. Many though, fail to realize, that, there is a cruel, game, being played out here. A game [targeted towards men really], that states publicly, you have, to be a Success, before, you enter, a Relationship, but privately though, thoughts linger actually, amongst most men, that you have in all, to be, in a Relationship, before, you, seek out, Success [a need, by many men, to be, pampered, by women based on, having, a condition, known as, 'Mamas boy' syndrome]. A game, most men, will truly, never win, and their only chance, of being, free, is to understand [and know], the true nature, of, Relationships themselves [as with how, they work really], and once, this is known, the pressure, of, wanting, to be, in one, recedes in all [in all, this prevalent condition, is what, in many ways, has led, to, economic issues, in many parts, of, the world, as most men, don't attempt in all, to seek out, Success, due, to the complex nature, of, 'Mamas boy' syndrome] [A kind, of recursive thinking state, with no, stop to it, entered into, when, one, attempts to, do, just about, anything, they subconsciously, believe, is forbidden].
The nature, of Relationships here, will be, based on, four basic divisions: Relationship Formats [or what, some call, socio-political order], Relationship Designs [or what, some call, socio-economic order], Relationship Forms [socio-religious order], and finally, Relationship States [or simply, social order]. Of these four, Relationship Orders, only, Relationship States, is well known [as it is in all, associated with, the general way, in which, most, Relationships, work today], and Relationship Designs [which is all about, money issues, in, a Relationship].
In this Deluxe Edition, of 'Relationship Design with Cindy Crawford', we shall take, a look at, Relationships, and their, functionings [as with the past times really], from all over, the World, and in many ways, attempt, to show, how just, dysfunctional, the World is, today, due to its, basing, of Relationships, mainly, on, Sexual activity.
Relationship Formats (socio-political order):
Relationship Formats, in all, speak of, how just Relationship, themselves, actually, function [in all]. That for many today [men and women], the rise, of Feminism, has in many ways, led to, a collapse, in the, socio-political, order, of Relationships, leading, in many ways, to, Relationships, which overtly, favour, Women, as with the, Law itself. We shall attempt, to show, the masses, in different Regions, of the World, in, a basic manner, just how, Relationships, in their Regions, have functioned, in the past.
North America: Equals
The belief, or concept really, of having, men and women, as Equals, in a Relationship, actually stems, from, North America. A belief today, falsely associated with, sharing duties, or even, powers [as with, disciplining children], in a, Relationship. The model, has in many ways, failed to, work, as it does in the present, as both, men and women, actually play today, a role, in performing, all kinds, of activities, alternatively. In the past though, men and women in North America, actually did, everything, together [as equals, or even, twins]. From making, the bed, to cooking, breakfast itself, and even, simply, watching TV together. In all, what this did, was make, the man and woman, pretty much, the same, in how, they, did things, as the issue, of, Equality, in North America, between men and women, has always been, with regards to, how, they do things [and not, how, they act (as the debate, today, is all about)]. As a result, of doing things, together, a general culture, of, sharing erupts, and it is from, North America, where the belief that, a man and woman, share, just about, everything [including, socks, and even, bank accounts], stems from. In many ways, a Relationship Format, where, the men, and women, live, together, in one, big house [and paying off too, a mortgage].
South America: Lovers
South America, is where in all, the general belief, that, a man and woman, in a Relationship, should be, Lovers [as seen, in, magazines, and even, romantic fiction], stems from. A Relationship Format, many assume, to be, rather Western, and also, somewhat believed [falsely], to be, rather prevalent [even, in, a, Feminist society]. The world of Lovers, is whereby, each, calls, on the other, when they, need, a problem, solved [in all ways and manners]. Otherwise, when there is no problem, to be solved [including sexual], the man and women, are, pretty much, separate, and away, from, each other. In many ways, the figure of speech 'the man in my life', is acquainted, with, this, Relationship Format, and in general, speaks of, a man/person, called really, to help, deal, with any issue, that, arises, that the woman can't in general, deal with [especially, as emergencies]. Both men and women, get closer, to each other, based on, problems faced and solved, as in all, with this Relationship Format, both the man, and woman, actually, live separate, from, each other. In the end, when a body of Knowledge, has been, accumulated, on solving, various problems, the man and woman, simply, remain friends [meeting, once or often, for, a dinner or two].
Europe: Consorts
In Europe, Relationships, are rather, misunderstood, as in many ways, they are, believed, to be, like what, you see, in, the movies. In reality though, in Europe, men and women, in a Relationship, are always, Consorts [of one kind, or another]. In general, this means, they are, what, some call, 'buddies', rarely, ever talking, about themselves, but simply always, about, others (the world at large), and the person, in, the Relationship, with them. Consorts in all, are kind of, Friends, close, but still, private, as with really, crossing boundaries [one should in general, know, what, to talk about, or not]. In this Relationship Format, the man, both, lives, alone, and also, once in a while, with, the woman. As in all really, its a Relationship Format, where, the man, and woman, seek out, often, their own, space, or time away really, from, the Other. After some time, when probably, having, been away, and, something new, to talk about, does exist, the couple, come back, together, to spend time, with each other [in all, both the man, and woman, should be outwardly, as with, having, something happening, in their lives]. In all really, both the man and woman, seek out, intelligent/creative mates, to be with, and problem solving, is always, of, the advisory form [the men and women, each solve, their, own problems]. The end goal, is to ensure, that, the humour [intelligence/creativity], in the Relationship, never does, die off [the man, and woman, are not, overtly (or even, openly) Sexual with each other, and even, at times, might have, different, mates, for sexual activity].
Africa: Partners
Relationships in Africa, have always, been, based on, Sexual Themes [in all]. Relationships, appearing, to be, Humorous, but actually, Sexually inclined, as, conversations in them, do question, ones intelligence, as with, sexual overtones. Not an easy, Relationship Format, to explain, but one commonly known of, as it speaks, of, 'Cycles in a Relationship' [the ups and downs, of, Relationships] [Very modern way, of viewing, Relationships]. In most of the World, these ups and downs, speak of, taking ones, Relationship, sexually, to the next level. In Africa though, these ups and downs, were often, met [and dealt with], using, a Sexualized Humour, based heavily on, Joking, Riddling, and, Puzzling another [in all, Jokes, Riddles and Puzzles, in, a Relationship, were actually, how the man, and woman, related, with each other (as in, acting, sexual, but jokingly)]. When the man, and woman, had known each other, rather well [as with, Jokes, Puzzles, and ,Riddles], they in many ways, went, separate, from each other [as with, old age, or, even, divorce].
Middle East: Nuptials
Relationships, in the Middle East, falsely presented, in, the Media, are actually, of, the Nuptials kind [of Conventional Marriages/Weddings, as seen, in, the Byzantine world]. Relationships, in many ways, where, each member, attempts, to present, themselves, as perfect (in all), but with time, one realizes that, their rather, beautiful spouse, is, in all, not perfect, at all [as with cooking perhaps]. In all, a game, of attempting, to, figure out, another, as, each does present, themselves, perfectly, and in all too, a game, where, if any, of, the members, slips [and shows imperfection], the other, gains, an upper hand [including in general, a poorly cooked meal]. In many ways, the world, of the rights, of men and women [as with marriage rules], and the world too, of, the Church vs. the State [as the Church, is often, called in, to, moderate, these Relationships], and also in all, often, strongly, associated, with, the world, of, Societal problems [domestic violence, family problems (as with relatives), spoilt children, and even, Government interference (in the marriage, as with higher taxes)]. In the end, the goal in all, is not, only, to seek out, perfection, as with, the marriage [Societal problems], but also, perfection, with each, of, the members, in it [as with, marriage rules].
Asia: Mates
In Asia, the goal of Relationships [as with Formats really], has always been, about, self-improvement [in one form, or another]. Self-improvement, on how really, one, should basically, present, themselves, in the world, and also, too, attain maturity, due, in all, to the, rather, prison-like, nature, of, Asian marriages [a model actually, rather also, popular, around, the World today, as, with, the higher classes]. In many ways, unknown to most, Women in Asian, marriages, do have, lots of Power, as one, of the goals, in, the marriage, is to root out, any, affections, the man, might have, for, their mother [or even, any, other, known, female figure]. The women in many ways, do create, prison-like environments, where, the man, is in many ways, made, mature, such that, in the end of it all, the man, is actually, envied [and desired too], by, other women, in society. It is too, for the man, to know, if, the woman, in his life, is, tyrannical in nature, as with the belief, that, women, always know, whats, right, for all. In many ways too, the woman, seeks out, the best, for herself, by attempting, to, rise above, the, wisdom, instilled, into her, by, her mother [and the, dread, by, some women, of, becoming, exactly, like, their mothers] [In all, the attempt really, by the woman, to raise, up, an, enviable family (world of, very well, mannered children), and, including too, as with, regards, to, wealth accumulated].
Relationship Designs (socio-economic order):
Relationship Designs, in most ways, speaks of, Money issues, and in general, how, couples in all, seek, to deal, with, this, very matter [issues too, of, survival, in general].
North America: Enterprising Personalities
It is North America, where the belief, that, a man and woman, should own, an Enterprise or two, to supplement, any, other form, of, income, they may have, so as to in general, retire early, and, live, a comfortable life [arises from in general]. In many ways too, the world, of, Robert Kiyosaki, and in many ways really, the goal, is, to retire, as early, as possible, with, enough money, in the, Bank, to enable one, to, live life, rather, comfortably. In many ways too, the end goal, is, to sell, the Enterprise (or two), and one, finds that, the world, of, Enterprises, is one, heavily based on, Credit Funding [as with, Family members, or even, a, prominent Businessman, in the region]. In all, the world of Enterprises too, is that, of, Human Resources management, as, succeeding in such business, is highly, based on, having, the right, people, working with one ['The Apprentice' style].
South America: Business-minded Folks
In South America, as with Success [and not Victories, or Legacies], a man and woman, as Lovers, and, in a committed, Relationship, come together, to, start, a Business. The Business of course, sets out, to, solve, a probably, well known, problem, in a community/city/Country [as with Garbage disposal perhaps], and, the whole goal, of, all this, is, to expand, the Business, as much, as, one, truly can [hopefully, across, borders, to the acclaim, of, a News Media (sometimes, overzealous, as with, 'Argentina' perhaps, taking, over, the World)]. The world in all, of, Business Management, and, Banks [and profit levels, and, bankruptcies too].
Europe: Entrepreneurs
In Europe, traditionally, both Men, and Women, have, managed, their own, Affairs [as with, Money issues]. In general, it has been, a Taboo, for, the man, to ask, the woman, for, any, money, and having, money problems, could, cause, the Relationship, to dissolve [in all]. The world of Entrepreneurs, is not, only one really, of making, money, but actually, of, seeking out, fame & acclaim [as with, producing, a hugely, popular, music act, writing or publishing, a rather, popular book, or even, selling or making, a wine, that, proves, to be, rather too famous]. The whole goal, is not, about, the money made, but, the adventure sought out, and one, which one, can look back to, as with, gloating perhaps [and even, openly, boasting, about it by telling, white lies, with regards, to, attaining, the success (as with claiming perhaps, that one, used to, sleep, in a, dumpster, before making it)]. In many ways too, the whole goal, of the man, is to impress, the woman, in his life, with, his success, while, the woman, seeks in some ways, to be, the only person, in the whole country, ignoring, the man. A whirlwind life in all, as Success, can bring about, the, wrong choices in life, as with choosing, another, woman, erroneously [and in general, not knowing, how, European women, can make, or break one, simply, by the way, they relate, to one]. In all too, the world, of, Venture Capitalists.
Africa: Investors
The world, of Investing, is in many ways, rather, strongly acquainted, with Africa, despite, the fact, that most, don't associate it, with, Wealth [in any form]. In Africa, a man and woman, seek out, business, opportunities, to Invest in, by, taking advantage really, of, any opportunity, that, arises [as with influx, of people, into, a place, and the, building, of, rentals, for them]. In many ways too, the world, of, making, right decisions [as with Investments], and highly, acquainted too, with the world, of, Finance, and even, Managerial Science [as with, finding/using, the best quality, lowest costing, Human Labour]. In many ways, a world, rather Political in nature [as with Multinationals perhaps], as the Employers, have to, cater for [and care even] for, their employees [perhaps, even, with housing, and food]. In the African past, Investment, was highly, associated, with Agriculture, and in many ways too, the world, of, Import-Export [a rather, political world, as with, importing, food, from outside, ones world, and in general then, becoming, a, political figure, than in many ways, can, influence, real politics, in ones region]. In all, most, successful Africans, in Investment, eventually, do seek out, a place, in, Politics [in all, the goal of, African couples, is to, become, politically, reknowed, in one form or another].
Middle East: Self-Employment
The world, of Self-Employment, is heavily, misunderstood, as it often, signifies, running, a small scale, operation, as with the case, of, what, some call, a business front, or even, a store. In the Middle East though, the world, of, Self-Employment, is highly, associated with, the world, of Innovation. In many ways, this refers to, the world, of Industry itself, as one, looks at, any developments, in just about, any, Industry [from Tourism, to, Semi-conductors, and even, Mining], and seeks, to bring about, Innovative change [the world, of, Lasik Eye Surgery, Dreamworks, and even, Dell Computers]. In most ways, this 'Industry', is highly, associated, with, Knowledge accumulation [and development], as the most, important resource, that, one has, is, ones Knowledge, of, the Industry itself [as with, becoming, an Authority in it], and also especially, Knowledge, on how, to run, ones Agency, in the best, manner possible [as with, spending money, equipment used, and, even, Clientele]. In all really, in the Middle East, men and women, don't really, talk, of money issues, and each, actually, has, their, very own, Bank Account. In many ways, this model, also works, in, the Middle East, as it is, heavily based on, Government funding, with regards to, any Innovation discovered [unlike, in the Western world, where, it is based, on, Credit Card funding].
Asia: Government Employment
In Asia, work, has always been, in, the form, of, Government [and never, Private Industry, as many imagine]. For a man, and woman, in Asia, traditionally, life, was very, much, based on, running, a Government owned business. In all really, the Government, provided, for all, the funding, and assets needed, to get started, and the man and woman, simply, ran the business, to the best, of their ability. As the business grew [by working hard, and, working smart (few mistakes made)], the man and woman, gained, a larger, stake, in their business [as shareholders really], and, competition, was encouraged, by, the Government, based on, all sorts, of, Incentives [such as, better housing, chauffeured cars, special gifts, or even, free vacations in all]. In many ways, the goal of the woman, was to, ensure, that the business owned, became, the most, prosperous, of them all, and for the man too, the goal in all, was, to become, a reknowed even, top, Government Official [and in many ways, influencing, Industry/Government, as with, how, they, were run (as even, with, publishing, a seminal paper, on, Government itself)].
Relationship Forms (socio-religious order):
Relationship Forms, in all, has to do, with, how, a Relationship progresses, from, its infancy, to, its very end [as perhaps, with, old age itself]. In many ways, the main reason, why, a couple, of any kind, seeks, to, stick together.
North America: Socialites
In North America, once, a couple, eventually does, own a Home, make lots, of money, and even, luckily, retire early, they then, seek, in many ways, to become, Socialites. They in most ways, don't, only seek to be reknowed in their home regions, but across, the, country even, and even, outside it. In many ways, a life, lived around, friends, and in all too, enjoying it, as much, as, one can [in many ways, many, operations (of all sorts) in America, tend, to be, systematized, as with, Business Processes (and the world, of, Management Systems, replacing, workforces)].
South America: Acolytes
The word Acolyte, often taken to be, rather, religious in meaning, instead here, does signify, a person, deemed, in most ways, an expert [of a kind], in, an area, of sorts. For South Americans, the goal, of a man and woman, has always been , to, own, a hugely, successful Business, that will in all, allow the, to, live and travel (around the World), as they, so wish [the culture, of, having, several homes, and traveling, all over, the World]. In many ways too, the man and woman, seek, to become, experts, in their Business Field [or, related endeavours], by writing perhaps, all, kinds, of books, or even, articles, and even, holding, seminars, to help, others in general, learn, something new [of a kind]. In many ways too, the man and woman, do live, separate lives, and, are brought, together, mainly, by their children.
Europe: Celebrity
In Europe, not only, do men and women, seek out, to become, Financially Independent [as in, having money sources, one, can live off from, forever] [often at times, in, the form, of, copyrights, trademarks, and even, trade secrets], but they also, seek, to become, socially reknowed [as in, having, others, come, to like them, strongly]. In many ways, they seek, to become, celebrated figures [for their lives (as lived, and even, as perhaps, having, done, something silly once), to even, the success, achieved, in all (as with too, the number, of women, loved)]. In many ways, a world, of regrets, as with, missed out on, opportunities, and one even, of, being fooled, by, the Gods [as especially, with, the Greek Gods]. A difficult life in all, as it is usually, towards, the ending years, that, a man, and woman [who have been, consorts], fall strongly, in love (with each other), bear children too, and in all, live, a life, totally driven, by Love itself [in many ways, the goal, is to attempt, to claim, that, one, did in fact, outlive, Giacomo Casanova] [Italians in many ways, have often, trumped other, Europeans, in this area, of, Celebrity].
Africa: Figureheads
In Africa, a life lived, is in, most ways, rather, political in nature [as with, Rise, and Falls]. In most ways, the goal, of a man and woman, is to rise, to, the top, of, any, Political Institution really, and in many ways, rightfully, rule over, it [as with, perhaps, a, Family Dynasty] [In Africa, making wealth, is not, that simple/easy (due to politics), and once made, must be, protected, in a, rather, military like, nature]. In all, a life, lived around, politics [as with, seductions, and even, killings], and in all, attempting, to hold on, to, ones wealth [in an Africa, where, even Wives, are rather, treachorous], and in all, make it, to, the top, of, the Political Sphere.
The Middle East: Private Life
In the Middle East, the goal, of, any couple, is to, in general, attempt, to ascend, all forms, of, problems, such that, ones life, ceases, to have, any problems, of any kind. In many ways, the world, of lessons learned, as with, perhaps, having lost out [and not missed out], on, all forms, of, opportunity [as with, making, the wrong choices, at the last minute]. In many ways too, a life of applying, lessons learned, in ones, family life, to, outside it, and vice versa, as with, remembering really, ones, growth, in intelligence, creativity, and, religiousity. In many ways, a life, lived, with Intelligence really, mainly based on, ones, work life, Creativity, based on, raising, a family, and Religiousity, with regards, to, ones marriage. Growth in all these areas, finding peace, and simply, choosing, to enjoy life, simply [as with, even, around, ones children], until, ones, demise.
Asia: Family
For Asians, ones lifepath, is in many ways, strictly, centered, around, Family, and in many ways too, as based on, Traditions [adhering to them, practising them all, and even, adding, to them (with the help, of, the Ancestors)]. Traditions in all, that speak of, new ways, of living, required, as with growth, and in all really, maintaining, Family stability, to ensure, that, life, is well [and grand], for those, who, return, for, another lifetime.
Relationship States (social order):
Relationship States, speak of really, how, men and women, in general, enter, into, Relationships, with each other. The world, that existed, before, the rise, of, Internet Dating.
North America: Dating
In North America, men and women, enter, into Relationships, via, what is popularly, known as, Dating. Simply asking, a woman out [even (a) man too, perhaps], and going out, on, successive Dates, to discover, if, they have, any, similar interests [as too, with being, interested, in each, other], and finally, hitting it off, when, the interest levels, reach, a, certain peak [this hitting off, is often, followed, by, the shacking up, with each, other, and planning, for a life, together].
South America: Engagements
For South Americans, theirs, is a world, of, a chance meeting, with a man/woman, considered, beautiful, and in many ways, becoming, infatuated, with them. This infatuation, leads actually, not to, pursuing them, but, following them, around, in the hopes, of, meeting them, again, and probably too, getting, a phone number, or even, home address, they can, be, contacted at. This eventually, leads, if lucky that is, to, asking, the other, for, an engagement, as with, taking, in, a movie, or even, simply, having, a dinner together [where the man, attempts, to portray, intelligence]. After a few, such engagements, the man, leaves of [in general], and the woman, is supposed, to, follow through, in return, if, in general, interested, in, the mans advances [a world really, where, a man, might discover themselves, to be, having, a relationship, with, a woman, and her friends (as counselors)]. A difficult scene, as it is, highly regulated, by timing, and not really, knowledge.
Europe: Party Scene
In Europe, meeting men and women, has always been, associated, with a Party Scene, that one, must get, invited too. A Scene really, where, all parties [and especially men], are supposed, to, act, as natural as possible. In all, one is supposed, to act, intelligently, creatively, and even, funnily, in an, offhand manner, and in, general, do, or say, something, of interest [or funny], which in all, arouses, the interest, of, a female, figure. In all really, one is supposed, to be, invited, to as many, Parties, as possible, and eventually, strike up, the Friendship, of, a Female figure, deemed, of interest. A world really, of rivalries, jealousies, and even, brawls (as with, invitations perhaps) [and gave birth too, to, the Night Club scene].
Africa: Pursuits
Africa, is the continent, that gave birth, to, the world, of, pursuing people, of, interest to one, all over. In general, the world, of running up, to, a person, on a street, and attempting, to talk to them, in making them, in general, notice one. A rather, political world, as these, pursuits, can involve, having, another, put pressure, on, the woman of interest for example, to in general, give one, a chance, or, even, a try. A world, disliked, by those, who don't, know/understand it, as it in, general, involves, the woman 'playing hard to get', and the man, attempting, to act, as 'smooth', as possible [as with, attempting, to outclass, the woman, pursued]. It ends, with the woman, either agreeing, or, a political situation [involving, friends, family, or even, the police], arising [if the man in general, does not back off]. In many ways too, the world, of wondering, if, the other, actually, likes you, or, is using you, and even, the world, of, secretive relationships [as with, Class issues, and even, secret pursuits].
The Middle East: Special Interests
The world, of showing, a high interest, in, another, by showering them with, all forms, of, gifts, or even presents too, does originate, from, the Islamic/Byzantine, world [a world, of men and women, supposed, to show, exemplary class/attitude]. In most ways, the more expensive, and, high quality, the gifts/presents are, the better, the impression, made. In many ways too, the world, of, proper choices, as, rejection, can have, serious consequences, or ramifications too, in other areas, of, ones life. In many ways, a world, of competition [as with gifts, and presenting oneself too], as losing out, can lead, to, losing out, with, other women in general. A world, of making, the right choices [as with gifts/presents], choosing the right words, and even, acting, with confidence, at all times.
Asia: First Impressions
In Asia, where contact, between, men and women, is often, limited, to occasions, both men and women, attempt, their best, to make, the, very best, of, First Impressions. In many ways too, the world, of, 'Love at First Sighting' [as with, the second sighting, might have, one, changing, their minds (as perhaps with, having seen, the other, from, a certain angle only)], and in all, attempting, to ACT really, funny, or even, intelligently, or even, funnily/silly, and in all, attempt too, to develop, a strong, friendship, with the other, such that, when, the time, for marriage, does come, asking for their hand [officially that is], becomes, rather easy. In many ways, one should attempt in all, to make, favourable impressions, all over, as this, in many ways, helps deal, with the control, of, sexual urges, as in many ways too, Asian civilization, does ask, that one, remain, celibate, until, ones marriage [as 'Gods', can quickly, become, sexually immoral]. In all, being always watched, by women in general, as with, slips, and even, Culture too, and the general culture too, of men, in general, acting, overly (if not, overtly), as if, not interested (in women), or failing even, to in general, notice, women [and instead, have them, notice you].
Regional Contacts:
This section, in many ways, does not, attempt, only, to explain, how, Regional Contacts, between, Regions of course, worked, but in many ways too, how, different peoples, of, a civilization, should relate, to each other. In many places, of the World, one finds, those, with white, brown, and, black skins, living, in, the same place. And while today though, people, with white skins, are, viewed, as being, good looking, or not, good looking, they historically, have been, viewed, from the perspective, of, Culture [and even, Hair]. Brown skinned people, are viewed today, from, the perspective, of, being funny, or not, funny, but traditionally, have been, viewed, from the, perspective, of, Religion (as even, with, etiquette, and manners) [Religion, since the old days, has always, been, associated, with, brown skinned people (and not, black)]. Black skinned people, while viewed today, as being, nice, or not nice, have traditionally, been, viewed, from the perspective, of, Order [knowing it, as with, being, of general intelligence (meaning, quick in thought/knowing, quick in understanding, and even, quick in comprehension)]. Today though, there is also, a general pattern, of, associating, Blackness with Religion, Whiteness with Order and 'Browness' with Culture.
When it comes, to Regional Contacts, between, Regions, an old model, based, very much, on, the Byzantine/Islamic world, is often, used today [that of, classifying folks, visiting, from another Region/region, as, Visitors, Guests, Residents, Travelers, and even, Foreigners]. And while, Relations [diplomatic in nature], do exist, between, Regions, as based on, 'World History', other more important, contacts, have always, existed, based on, two things, covered, under, the 'Mind Frames', entry [Areas of Confluence & Dimensions]. A third form, of relating, with others, from around, the World [as with, North America & the World], is based on, Cultural Identities, and in many ways, deemed, rather more, suitable, for the World, than that, in place, today [of Visitors and Guests].
In most ways, relating, based on, Dimensions [Mind Frames], is the kind, of relating, actually, associated with, Drama [the Dramatic], between, different Regions , of the World. Some of that, often seen, in, the past, was:
North America & South America:
Today though, replaced, by, 'North America' and Mexico [a history, of, warring, wars, and even, feuding].
Europe & East Asia:
Rather similar, with regards, to, all forms, of, Dramatic events.
[One should realize that, this relating, is between, individuals, or even, small groups, and, in all, means that, few, entry restrictions, should, be imposed, on, these people].
The Middle East & Afrique:
Members of Afrique, and, the Middle East (especially, Oman and the UAE), have had, a, general culture, of, crossing paths, and, starting, small fights, with, each other.
Africa & South East Asia:
Members of South East Asia, and Africa, have often, had, serious problems, with each other, from exploitation, to, intermarriage issues, and even, religious issues.
When dealing, with Areas of Confluence, Italian, was proposed, as, the Language, of choice, and this, in many ways, is all about, meeting, with, close friends [from all over, the World], and choosing, to relate, in, Italian, rather than, English [with Kenya (as a Land), chosen perhaps, as, the best, destination, for such meets].
The issue, of Cultural Identities, was chosen, as, the best way, for, the World, in many ways, to, engage with each other, from, the perspective, of, doing Business, or even, simple, Cultural ties [again, with Italian, as, the Language, of choice].
[In all, it is proposed, that Markets (as with Market Theory), best operate, based on, Italian]
The Islamic world, is one, where, its peoples, have best, met, under, the old forms, of, relating, as with, Guest, or, Visitor, and alot, of, the Infrastructure, associated with this, is seen, today. In many ways, the Islamic world, lies dormant, due, to its not, having, a true Language, to use, in, relating, with each other. It is perhaps, believed best, that, the Language, of Islamic Spain [Andalusian Spanish], be used, for this, as with uniting, all the members, of, the Islamic world [Andalusian Spanish, is very much, a Tongue, like, Arabic, and not, a true Language, like, Castilian Spanish].
*Special thanks, to Cindy Crawford, for putting in, the extra hours*
