Monday, August 9, 2010

The Art of Sex (kitab al-duwari)


The subject of Sex, is one, that never tires, to be popular, amongst, the masses, ever since, a British man, discovered, the Kama Sutra, in India, and popularized it, in England. And ever since, Sex, has become, more of a topic, with discussions held, about, how to perform it right, and how, to go about, getting it. In this entry though, we seek, to return, Sex, to its rightful place, as a, subject, and we shall attempt, to present it, from another perspective: that of Sex, and the psyche.

The psyche, as a descriptor, of whom we are, is a known, phenomenon, having been made, popular, by parapsychologists, such as, Carl Jung. And, there are, basically, two kinds, of sexual, epitomes, often characterized, by the terms: the Twin, and the Other. In general speech, what is been said, is that, when people, seek, sexual contact, at, its very heart, they are seeking, contact, with a Twin, or, the Other. The general description, of the Twin, and the Other, is best seen, via, a short, study, of the Occidental. The Twin, is someone, who has, an opposing [inverted in nature], personal history, touching moments, and aspirations. This is not, too easy, to explain, but as an example, it means, a person, who for instance, might experience, surprise, in the same way, as one, but, with the outcome, being, manifestingly, opposite. Someone touches one, gently, and shows them, something good, but touches, ones Twin, also gently, but shows them, something bad. With the Other, personal history, touching moments, and aspirations, are basically, exactly, the same. In popular culture, the Twin, is often, represented, as a male/female, who is the same, in behavior, as their opposite. The Other though, is presented, as a male/female, who is different, in behavior, as their opposite.

The way, the Twin, and the Other, though, seek out, sex, differs too. With the Other, there are, four primary modes, of having Sex: Sensuality, Erotica, Aphrodisia, and Eros. Sensuality, is a rather, well known form, of sexual practise, especially seen, in the Western world. It is often, celebrated, in the form, of Nude photography [an Art form]. At its heart though, its all about, being seductive. Being seductive, in general, is what, separates, Western women, from other women, out there; its an artform, in itself. Playing with ones hair, folding ones lips, playfully looking back at an interest (LeAnn Rimes style), playfully glancing [at an interest], is what, being seductive is all about, and many women, outside, the Western world, know nothing, about this. It is what, makes them, less competitive, as sexual hunts, than Western women. Aishwarya Rai [Bachchan], might be beautiful, but as sexual symbol, lags, behind, most, Western women, due to lacking, seductiveness. Erotica, is all about, stories really, about, impromptu, sexual experiences. Something, happening, out of the blue, as some, would say. Meeting someone, attractive, in an elevator, which eventually, leads, to sex. Erotica, is what, has generally made, Hustler magazine, a popular read, for some teens, out there. Aphrodisia, can probably, best, be said, to be sex, born, of a great, desire [and even lust], for an interest. Totally love mad, as in the case, of Romeo et Juliet. Chasing ones interest, across the world, in some cases. Eros, is a term here, used, to describe, sexual contact, that involves, food [such as strawberries, and even, ice cream]. Its a, sex form, whose general idea, is to lead, to deeper forms, of intimacy. A sexual contact, that deals, with the issue, of a deep desire, to possess, another. Not too easy, to explain. The Twin, on the otherhand, has sexual contact, that has its premise, on four things: Adultery, Homosexuality, Incest, and Rape. In general, the sex, is adulterous, incestuous, rough [rape like in nature], and homosexual like, in variety. The Menage-trois, is a sexual experience, the Twin, would probably have. Sex, between, different ages, is also, okay, for the Twin. This, can only occur though, if the, two partners, involved, have the same, voice sound. 'Sexual healing', is a sex form, where, perhaps, a man, is mistreated, [a good man that is], by his wife, and has, an affair, with another woman, who treats him, well; this form of sexual contact, is acceptable, in the world, of the Twin.

For the Twin, and the Other, who is incapable, of obtaining, Sex, for one reason, or another, certain practises, are allowed. For the Other, visiting, harems [or even, clean brothels], is an, allowed, practise. In general, exchanging money, for sex, is acceptable, for the Other, although, it is not, altogether, a favourable, practise. It can make them, feel, like a fraud, as the Other, mostly, seeks, to be respected, in general, in society. With the Twin, what they call, Voyeurism, is an accepted, sexual practise, for those, who cannot, attain, easy Sex. Voyeurism, involves, for example, visiting, stripclubs, watching acceptable pornography [pornography with incestous, adulterous etc. themes in it], and even, sexual gossip, of some kind. For the Twin though, Voyeurism, is generally, acceptable, in society, and many, can lead, a solo, sex life, as masturbation, for the Twin, is acceptable [not for the Other].

One can easily, know, if they are the Twin, or the Other, by their basic, nature; the Twin, tends, to be, extroverted, in nature. The Other, tends, to be, introverted, in nature. Knowing this, can help one, know, whom they are, sexually, rather easily.

While, the above, applies, to the general, populace, in an area, it does not, really apply, to people, of importance, in one way, or another [a good example, being senators, presidents, priests, and the likes]. For them, the practise, of, Sacred Sexuality, is of importance, in retaining, a dignifiable image. Once outside, these positions though, they can, then, resort, to any, of the, sexual practises, outlined, above, as based, on, their basic nature.

Many, have probably heard, of the term, Sexuality. They don't, really know though, what it means, in general. In general though, it refers, to a force, within us [often experienced as being on our body surfaces], which leads us, to seek, contact, with others. In general, it leads us, to seek out, sexual unions, sexual bonds, and sexual relations. Sexual unions, at their heart, have the union, as their basis; Sexual bonds, have the bond, and Sexual relations, have, informal relations, at their core. Sexual relations, manifest themselves, when one, discloses, a secret [especially, a deep secret], to another, and they feel, strongly connected, to them. This kind, of connection, can be, dangerous, as the person, to whom, the secret, is exposed to, can easily, influence, ones thoughts. The only way, this connection, can be broken, is if, the secret, is exposed, to the masses, with the person, having the secret, in the know. Sexual bonds, are created, when a person, kind of, strongly, likes another. This bond, is dangerous, as it is, illusionary, in nature, meaning, that the person, in 'love', cannot, see, the other, too well. The person, in 'love', then, can have, their emotions, and feelings, easily influenced, by those, they are attracted to. This can be, a basis, for the practise, of witchcraft. These bonds, can only be, broken [as they tend to afflict our 5 senses], when the person, in 'love', sees, the attractive person, for whom, they really are [they have to see it, with their eyes]. It can be, a rather, dangerous, bond. You too have, Sexual relations, which, at their heart, has, the relation, as a way, of relating, and is, very much, about, dependency. Each party, depends, on the other, in one way, or another. The danger though, with Sexual relations, is that, they can, degenerate, into, what they call, codependent relations. Codependent relations, are relations, where, one, is totally dependent, on another, for general survival; this today, mainly means, a dependence, on another, for money. It is, through, Sexual relations, where money, and sex, become, intertwined, and marriages, in the past, based on, wealth, take the form, of, Sexual relations. Most marriages, out there, today, are based, on Sexual relations. In the past, in places, like France, business deals, were often, sealed, with sex acts, and hence, creating, Sexual relations, between, the two, deal makers. In general, it was believed, to be difficult, to break, such deals. Codependent relations, can only, be broken, if, the codependent, discovers, alternate ways, of survival. Codependent relations, can be, very damaging [intelligences]. Sexual relations, in general, when unbalanced, leads, to one party, strongly influencing, the others, views, perceptions, and observations.