Sunday, October 31, 2010

Relationship Design with Jemima Khan

Cindy Crawford, had to sit out, for, this edition, of, Relationship Design with 'Cindy Crawford', all due, to a, Public Relations issue. Jemima Khan, stepped in, to save, the day really, and it is, believed though that, Cindy Crawford, will hopefully, be back, in time, for the, next edition [of Relationship Design]

This edition, of, Relationship Design with Cindy Crawford, will put forth, a, relationship model, more or less, popular, in this day, but, having, origins, in the, ancient times. It is first, seen, in the, origins, of, civilization, with stone-age man, and, stone-age woman, with, stone-age woman keeping house, and stone-age man, playing, the role, of gatherer and hunter. It proceeds on, to, the times, of, Ancient Egypt, where it is seen, in a form, rather, popular to this day; that, of a man, and woman, plotting, together, to make, quick wealth, and live of it [slowly, and over, a period of time] [there exists, the possibility, of making, more wealth, later on]. It reappears, again, in the, Arthurian times, but, this time, in the form, of a, Queen, and Knight relationship [with the Queen, owning, considerable wealth, and the, Knight, helping, protect it, and generally, look after it]. It then, appears again, in, Deutschland [before the Napoleonic times], with savvy Deutsch woman, seeking out, to rise, in, Society, and in general, seek out [or have], all kinds, of, opportunity, knock, on their [her] door, by having, a mate, and presenting themselves rather well, in conventional society. The man in this relationship, was in many ways, just in it, for the, ride, with the woman, responsible, for seeking out, all, opportunity, and having, the man, make it real. It is too, seen again, in the, Napoleonic times, but, this time, becoming, more, business-like in nature, with the man, being, more, like an employee, and it all, operating, very much, like, a Royal Court system [as mentioned earlier, in another posting, in, European society, women, possessed, the logic, while, men, possessed, the knowledge; this was not always true, in other, cultures/societies, outside, Europe].

This Relationship model, is re-introduced, again, for these, present times, we live in. It takes, into, account, the fact, that, for many, Life, is kind of, miserable, due to, too much, negativity, all around [all sorts of problems, wanted, and unwanted]. It is very much, male oriented, meaning, that, a male, can choose, to live it out, all alone, without, a female presence, around [the female presence, being, exchanged, for worship, of a Goddess]. In general, a woman, will have, to seek out, a man, for this, relationship, in one way or another. The man, in this, relationship model, sees, himself, very much, as a, Knight-errant. A Knight-errant, is a Knight, who seeks out to solve, all kinds, of problems, in the form, of, a mission [and not, operation, or act].

We live, in a world, filled, with all kinds, of, negativity; even speaking, to most, people, out there, leaves one, with, all kinds, of, negative feelings. The environments, many of us, live in, are, rather depleted, and giving rise, to, many mixed, and indifferent, emotions/feelings. In all, many people, are not, too happy, and probably, believe, moving, to America [or Europe for that matter], will make them, happier, due to, the more or less, perceived, calm/peaceful, environments.

This relationship, has one thing, at its heart: the search, for Serenity [inner calm] [Serenity, is very much, like being, on the beach, all alone]. In many ways too, it is, all about, the escaping, of Karma [with regards, to ever recurring, problems]. With this model, the man, as Knight-errant, seeks, to stay in, at home, most, of the time, in a rather, Serene and Clean, environment. The home, should be viewed, as, being, rather sacred [even a Temple of sorts/Palaces], and cleanliness, is of, outmost, importance [especially, with regards, to noise]. In this, environment, the man, will seek, to, atleast, listen, to, serene music [such as church organ music, or even, classical or jazz], while also engaging in what, one could call, motivational media [media, all about, motivating, one, as in the form, of, self-help books, documentaries, educational magazines (like Entrepreneur magazine, and even, GQ), biographies/autobiographies (including movies), and even, keeping, a diary].

The man [Knight-errant], should also, have, a List, in general, of all the kinds, of problems, he expects, to face, in Life. General problems, which also, very much, means, what he would like, to attain [as in possess, and as, in, defining, 'material possessions']. How these problems, will be, solved, will be, based, on what, they call, a 'State Legislature'. A State Legislature, is very much, a series, of, Protocols, defined, by what, they call, State Mechanisms, State Apparatus, State Personnel, State Funds, State Functions, and all other kinds, of, definers, that can follow, the word/definer, State [including Letterheads, and, business cards; State Media]. In all, one simply, Lists, all the kinds, of, problems, they expect, to face, in, acquiring/attaining, the quality of life [as in 'material possessions'], they seek out, and then, seeking out, these possessions, via, a State process [mechanism, apparatus etc.], of one kind, or another. In many ways, it is similar, to the way, some, womens, society, functions today, but without, the law/legislature, behind it. In many ways too, this involves, acquiring, some resources [in the form of possessions], and having them, be, at the base, of ones, State Legislature [Possessions, are much easier, to find, and discover, and even, high quality ones, can be gotten, at a rather, good deal] [a second-hand, or even, third-hand car, is a possession]. In all, as mentioned, the State Legislature, defines, the kind, of problems, one, expects, to face, and also, very much, how, to go about, solving them.

Whenever, a problem [of all sorts] arises, the Knight-errant, seeks, to solve them, in a manner, similar, to going out, on, a Mission. Missions, very much, involve, deal-making [The Art of the Deal (Trump)]. In many ways, this involves, exchanging, favours, especially, in the form of, Time [rather than Money]. It might sound, a rather, crazy way, of, living [that is, a life, based, on, making deals], but interestingly enough, it is, the way, Billionaires, such as, Donald Trump, and even, Prince Alwaleed bin Talal, make, a living [making deals]. If one, develops, a good, deal making process [via, the State Legislature], one, can then, turn it, into, a Business Empire [mostly small-scale business] [e.g. being, a Franchise].

Any form, of enjoyment, in this, relationship model [and way of living], is based, on visiting, venues, and is done, really, while one, is on, a mission [as in a business lunch], or after, a successful, mission [is carried out]. This enjoyment, is only, at Venues [and not, Spots, or Places].

In all, the Knight-errant, should spend, most of his time, at home, but engage, with others, via the State Legislature, and, Deal-making process. In many ways, this model, does not, give rise, to, partners, in a romantic relationship, and the partners, in one, are very much, contacts [as in, work partners]. This model, can become, rather problematic, should one, enter, into a Love, relationship [this model, was once used, in a similar form, in the, Roman State]. In addition too, deal-making, should not, be reduced, to those, one, is acquainted with [or knows of], as in, especially, ones ethnicity, or even, tribe/nation/pals, as one, will find it best, to make deals, with, strangers [outside, ones various identities].

Material Possessions, Errant Knights, and the search, for Serenity: