Thursday, September 2, 2010

Respect & the Search for Intimacy

This entry, not too large, in scope, features, very much, the very issue, of, Respect. Respect here, should not, be confused, with, the virtue, respect. Respect here, very much, has to, do, with our, hominidal self, rather, than our, religious self [as respect has to]. We all have, what, some may, call, "the caveman", within us, and, it is, this, caveman, that in, our daily, everyday lives, seeks out, Respect. Respect, comes in, two modes: Respect, and Self-Respect. The latter, is more, about, how we, see, ourselves, as, very earthy, beings. The former, deals with, how, others see us, and basically, deal, with us.

The main problem, with, the world, today, is that, most, out there, no longer, seek out, Intimacy, in, their lives; the search, for Intimacy, has been, replaced, by, the search, for, Respect. In all though, the replacement, of, Intimacy, with, the search, for, Respect, has, the vast, majority, of, people out there, acting, from, their, hominidal self, and very much, too, starting, to look, hominidal. Respect in all, the search for it [that is], has many, out there, engaging in, arguments, abuse, and fights too. They believe, that, winning, in any, of the, three, listed, will have them, gaining, Respect, and being, respected, back [in general, that they will rise, in society].

Self-Respect today, has been, defined really, on a, physical level; it very much, has to, do, with, how we look [facially], how we are generally treated, and finally, the body image, we have. When most, feel like, they are not, on a, certain, physical level [as dictated by society] i.e. facially, treatment wise, and even, body image wise, they begin, to lose, Self-Respect. When this, happens, they can, easily, be, mistreated, and generally, abused, in just, about, any way. From being, disrespected, at work, poor treatment, at the store, or even, being, refused, adequate, housing. They just, take it in, accept it really, and, move on, with life, not, realizing, they are, slowly, becoming, hominidal. When one, watches, the media, they, find, that the, only people, with, Self-Respect, are, rich, Westerners [and white too]. It is they, who are, portrayed, only, as having, good facial looks, being treated well, and, good body images. Many feel, if they, don't fit, this, western profile, they are, sub-par, as humans, and should, not, in general, be treated, too well [they lose Self-Respect]. In truth though, the search, for, Self-Respect, begins, with our, Basic Intelligence, and the, mini-cultures, associated, with it. Thats where, all, arguments, and, fights, pertaining, to, Self-Respect, should take place [with no bad blood, developing].

Respect, on the, otherhand, has become, something, very much, to do, with our, social circles [men and especially women], a need for respect [even without achieving it], and, sex [availability, quantity and quality]. When most, people today, feel like, they are, Respected, in society [or are asked basically, to define, Respect], it very much, has to, do, with the, three, mentioned above: their social circles, being respected, and how much sex, they are getting. In many ways, Respect, has become, very much, what, many out there, live for, with, regards to, achievement, and goals. Life has sunken to a low, which, most hominidals, out there, would probably, be amazed at [driven hominidals, in the past, sought out, the secret of fire] [It is believed perhaps, that the, party hominidals (seeking Respect), became extinct]. The need for respect, here, should mainly, really, be defined, as, refusal, to, white establishments [of all kinds], out there. The desire perhaps, to dine, at a, white restaurant. In general though, the search, for, Respect today, is somewhat, associated, with, the search, for Intimacy. What this, really means, is that, the search, for Respect, in, civilized society, has, very much, become, transformed, into, the search, for, Self-Acceptance & Acceptance, via, the search, for Intimacy. Self-Acceptance & Acceptance, with regards, to Respect, is really, defined, as the, seeking out, for, sex appeal, sexual attraction, and sexy looks [sexiness]. When people, out there, have all three [or any of them really], they feel, Self-Acceptance [and even Acceptance], and do not, seek out, Respect.

There are about, three ways, to seek out, Intimacy, and at, the same time, develop, Self-Acceptance & Acceptance. The first, was already, listed before [in the search for intimacy entry], as, Pop-culture. Pop-culture only [and not the other ways listed], is the, way, to go about, in one way, gaining, sex appeal, sexual attraction, and, sexy looks. Yet again, there are, still, other, ways, to go about, gaining, Intimacy, while, developing, Self-Acceptance and Acceptance, from others. One way, has, very much, to do with, events [scenes, occassions etc.], occuring, in general society, and, especially, with regards, to, spots, venues, and places. In general, it very much, has, to do, with, a physical infrastructure, people visit, often, to find out, whats, going on, and, at the same time, present themselves, generally, to the, public. In short really, just wanting, to hang around, folks out there [and be accepted]. Places here, include, public establishments, such as, the movie theatre. This, all this, is, another way, to go about, gaining, Intimacy [by expressing, ones views and opinions], and also, very much, gain, Self-Acceptance & Acceptance [by expressing, the previous, well, and having them, accepted (or recognized), by others]. There is, however, a third way, of gaining, Intimacy, which is, very much, solo, in nature, and less, popular today, than it was, before. It consists, of, three things: seeking beauty in nature [and identifying with it], sporting activities & exercising [not exercise], and finally, traveling the land, in search, for history [historical sites]. Going, to a famed, night spot, is part, also, of seeking out, history.

In general really, the search, for Intimacy [and Self-Acceptance & Acceptance], has us, very much, questioning, the value, of sex, in our daily lives. What this means, is that, as shown, above, there are, many ways, of seeking out, Intimacy, and, Acceptance [of all kinds (meaning sexiness etc.)]. What then, is the, real purpose, of sex? It appears though, that, sex, must be, raised, to a, higher level, than, it is, practised today. While, in the past [the very past], it was, about, the search, for Intimacy [with regards to society in general], by physically, exposing, oneself, to another, and later, feeling, sensitive about it [sensitivity is a form, of Intimacy, and has, to do, with exposure], it eventually, became, a practise, very much, geared, towards, Acceptance [seeking out the beautiful damsel out there] & Self-Acceptance [performance issues really]. Pop-culture though, and other, such practises, have, very much, dealt with, issues, of sex [and Intimacy / Acceptance], and why, you also don't, really find, sex, mentioned, in, olden day, Art works. As far back, as, Napoleanic France, the sex act, had, in many ways, dissapeared, from, society, in favour, of, other forms, of, sexuality; from Nude Art, to what, the French, called, Fabliau [erotic sexual stories, dealing with, highly perceived, moral people (such as priests)]. In short really, sexuality, had, evolved, into, very much, a form, of, psychological terror [which included, trsysts, make out sessions, to the ordinary (walking into a persons room, while they change)]. Today though, sex, has, very much, fallen, into, a, depraved act, violent in nature, and, totally uncultured [even uncivilized]. In general, the sex act, today, should, very much, be about, Self-Respect, and occur really, as a, public service [healing in nature (sex as therapy)] ['you are crazy, you need, to get laid' scenarios].