Thursday, June 17, 2010

Concepts of Love

Love, is a topic, that is often, of great interest to many, after money. Interestingly enough though, love and money, do go hand in hand. People, are really inspired, to make money, due to love, and not sex, as many out there, believe. Love though, is still very much, a European practice. Other groups out there, don't really do it. Love, has somewhat made, Europe, very famous. Love, is an interesting topic, because of its diversity; there are many kinds of love out there, and if you are going to engage in love, you might want to know, about them. Lets give, some examples:

Amor: The Spanish Concept of Love

Amor, is a rather known form of love, having been made popular, by Mexican and South American soaps. It is an easy kind of love, to explain. A man, is in love, amor, with a woman, who refuses to react appropriately. He tries to make her straight, or fit an ideal, but she attempts to do otherwise. She might be a drunk, a gossip, a spendthrift, outspoken, and the man, does not like that. And he tries his best, to do what he can, to make her, change her ways. Thats Amor. Amor, can inspire one, in the arena of business too. It works, kinda simply. A person, comes up with a business idea, and then, has to work hard, to convince customers, that his product, or service, is ideal for them. A kind of, salesmanship. It can great crazy that way, and the last thing, you want to do, is beg. Don't beg, when dealing with Amor. You just have to find a way, to figure things out. The opposite side of this, is when the woman, in your life, loves you alot, or your customers do too. Then you find, you begin, to act, like a jerk, or a-hole. There is a fine balance to it. Dictatorships, are born of Amor, gone wrong.

Amour: The French Concept of Love

Amour, or the French concept of love, is kinda easy to explain too. A man, lives in a city, which is renowned, for its beautiful, charming and intelligent women. Competition, is not fierce, but rejection is. The man knows, or has been told, that its easy, to deal with this. He has to become, a kind of, social ideal. He has to be clean, intelligent, mannerful, funny etc. He has to practise hard, all this, including, how to approach women and dance. You have to do it, all right. When he does, he wins the hand in marriage, of a most beautiful woman. But thats where Amour, takes on itself, another twist. He realizes, there are forces out there, threatening, to derail, the marriage. The woman, might fall sick, and the man, despairs. The woman, might have an affair, and the man, recoils, in horror. Thats Amour. Amour, can also, be applied, to the business world. A man, inspired by amour, to make money, sets out, to be the perfect, businessman. He exercises, he learns how to present himself, but mainly, he reads alot, so he can have a full understanding of things. He knows theorems, and how to apply them. He is that deep. He then, sets out, to start a business, and he finds, that since he is well prepared, success, comes easy. The belief, in success, in a fortnight, is of French origins. But thats when now, things begin, to go awry. Once a success, he finds, that there are forces out there, out to derail, the business. He has to work hard, to keep everything, perfect. Thats Amour again.

Obsession: The English Concept of Love

Obsession, or the English concept of love, is pretty well known. A man, falls in love, with a woman, whom is somewhat defenceless. She is perfect, but somewhat weak. He wins her hand, and then sets about, practically, locking her up. He wishes, to control, all her movements. He wants to know, where she goes, whom she sees, and what she does. He wants to know everything about her, so as to feel safe, and have her, not know much, about him; so as to feel safe. He fears abandonment. Thats Obsession. Obsession, can be applied, to the business world, and is very often is. Its the most famous known way, of making money. With Obsession, one comes up, with the perfect product or service, and sets out, to make it available. Everybody loves it, when they see it. However, there are those, who are known, as competitors. They see the product, or service, and think, they can make an equivalent, or something greater, in one way, or another. They do, and the first man, realizes, that his clients, wish to leave him, and go, somewhere else. It is then, he becomes obsessed with them, and winning them back. Thats Obsession.

Liebe: The German Concept of Love

Liebe, or the German concept of love, is actually much more commonly known, than most believe. It has been made famous, by television, and B-movies. Liebe, happens, when a woman, likes a man, and lets others know about it. The man, hears about it, and somehow knows, he has to do, something about it. He sets out to woo, and lure her. He talks to her, for a while, then sets out, to buy her some flowers. He then moves on up, to chocolates, before asking her out, for a date. They go to the movies, before he upscales it, to theatre. He then finally, takes her dancing. Thats Liebe. During this time, the love, grows, stronger. They then get married, and the problem of keeping things alive, arises. This is not too difficult, as it involves, making themselves, better. Liebe, is also, often, very much seen, in the business world. Often associated, with small business. A person, has a product, or service, and sets out to woo, or lure, customers, or clients. He talks to them, about the product/service; he dines them, he sends them a card, thank you card, perhaps even, with some flowers, he tells them of great deals, and responds to them, about any queries. When he has finally captured them, clients or customers, he then sets out to make everything, real good. Better deals, better service, better products. Thats Liebe again.

Amore: The Italian Concept of Love

Italians, are heavily renowned, with love. When most think Italian, they think love. Even more, than with the French. Italians today, tend to adopt, different, types of love. They don't really practise Amore. There is Italian Obsession, as seen in the movie, 'Pretty Woman'. There is Italian Liebe, as seen in the movie, Notting Hill. One might wonder, why the Italians, adopted other forms of love, and dropped, or appeared to do so, Amore. This is all because, Amore, is known out there, to those who don't fully understand it, as stalking. A man, sees a beautiful Italian woman: aren't they all, and sets out, to conquer her. He however knows, he can't really get close to her, since he is really, an average joe. He therefore, sets out, driven by desperation really, to stalk her. He begins to do so, and with time, she notices. "Who is that guy? He's always here!", is what she says, when she sees him, for the umpteenth time, milling around, near but far, from her. If he is noticed, she sets out to hide herself, and thats when, he becomes, really desperate. He sends her a letter; he calls her mother; or he sets alight her lawn, with fire, spelling out his name, and hers. He probably, even gets into a fight, with a male friend, of hers. As one can see, Amore, can be violent. It all falls now, to the woman, to accept him, or reject him. Amore, can also be applied, to business. In a simple way; one simply, somewhat stalks, their customers. They know about them, but they don't really know them. They then set out, to come up with a product, or service, they believe, their customers, would want. Often high end, customers. They make, the product, or service available, and things become undecided: "What do you mean, they don't like it?" "They just don't like it" "What do you mean, they just don't like it?" "They think its wack Pauly". And then, its back, to the drawing board. This continues, until, they hit it big. When one uses Amore, to do business, one can hit it, really big. You could probably win, an Oscar, for hitting it big with Amore, though you are a businessman. Amore, is that strong.

Liebe-Austria: The Austrian Concept of Love

Liebe-Austria, or what some call, Passionate Love, is the Austrian concept, of love. Liebe-Austria, is somewhat, easy to explain. A man, sees a woman, a Juliet perhaps, and knows, she just would never love him. He believes this, strongly. He however, spends his days, and time, thinking about her. There are two ways, to do this; the right way, and the wrong way. With the wrong way, the man thinks about her all the time, almost despairing, she knows nothing about him. This might continue, for many years, until he learns the most disastrous of news: She is moving away, she is getting married, or she has a rich boyfriend. It is then, that the man panics, and sets out to make known, his love for her. Can be disastrous, if not well thought out: Romeo and Juliet. With the right way, the man thinks about the woman, and why she loves him not. He figures something out, and then sets out, to improve himself. He does this, all the time, while thinking about her, and dreaming about her too. And then one day, when he believes himself perfect, he sets out, to see her, and make his love known. Liebe-Austria, is also often, parlayed, in the business world. A man, not much money, wishes, to make money, as to be popular. He sees others out there doing so, and he despairs. He knows not, what to do; they all seem intelligent, and him dumb. With the wrong way, he will spend his days, dreaming and thinking, about making money, but never really doing so. He fails in life, this way. With the right way, he thinks up a great idea, but knows, he cannot really fulfill it, as he is. He then sets about, thinking about the idea, how to make it real, and how to improve himself, as to ensure success, and does this, for many a year. Then one day, when he has got it all perfect, and has been working on himself, he sets out, to do it. The concept, of instant success, is associated, with Liebe-Austria. He becomes huge, but with time, gets bored, of the success. He seeks out, something else to do. He then enters, a whole new arena, and begins the same process again. The idea, of the renaissance man, was born of, Liebe-Austria. This also, works, in a relationship, as a woman can change, and the man, has to change too. If he refuses, she might leave, to seek out, another mate. Change, is not always easy, as Liebe-Austria, is an addictive form, of love. Once withdrawn, it can drive one, crazy. The fear of love, was born of, Liebe-Austria.