Saturday, November 26, 2011

Primary Relations



- lots of time, is spent talking really, of Teenagehood, Adulthood, and even Elderly-hood too actually, and just about in all really, how to go about in all too actually, dealing with the problems, faced during these phases of life in all really. For many, their Primary Relations (and as speaking of security, food, aid, assistance etc.), still tend to lie very much, with their Parents, or Guardians too actually [and all this a rather in all too actually, outmoded way of living, and one prone too even, to all forms of Authoritarian rule actually].

Life in the past, and as with dealing even, with the issues in all, of Teenagehood, Adulthood, and Elderly-hood even, consisted truly, of other forms even, of Primary Relations in all actually, and by which, many out there, attempted in all, to solve issues too really, associated truly, with Teenagehood, Adulthood or Elderly-hood too even actually [and as with Parents and Guardians truly, playing more or less minimal roles in ones life actually, and relations in all too, with the two mentioned above, taking other dimensions actually e.g. a kind of Assistant for instance (as with the case of a hardworking but lowly paid employee even), a type of Companionship (as with one in all, being a favourable presence really, and in all too actually), or even, a form of Agreement too really (where one asks for something all too actually, and then promises perhaps, to repay something in all too again, and in the future too actually)].

In many ways, Parenting as it is often told out there perhaps, and today in all too actually (with Parents too, being totally responsible in all, for their Children actually), ended in many ways truly, in the rather old times even [and a return to this model too, is a return in all actually, to times, when Domestication itself, was seen as a kind even, of good/profitable livelihood in all actually (and as with the case even, of Rural (African) lifestyles in all too really)].



Below though, and in all too actually again, will be presented, the Primary forms of Relations, seen in different parts of the World, and which in many ways, had come even, to replace everyday Parenting really, or even, the need to be in a Relationship too actually, inorder, to feel safe and secure about oneself really.

North America: Age-Mates

- it is North America, where Children in all, were self-raising even, and based around acquainting themselves truly, with fellow Age-Mates in all too actually [and with all this though, responsible too really, for ushering even, new 'Ages' in all too really (such as Generation X, Generation Y etc.), as North American Kids in all, chose to re-create really, all forms of distinctions between themselves actually (and based around Body Language too actually), that resulted in all, in revolutionizing even truly, Society in itself actually] [and with North American Kids too in all actually again, seen truly, as being Knowledgeable in all really (and as with beliefs even, held by Robert Kiyosaki actually), on future trends in Society/society in all truly really].

South America: Gender based relations

- the very habit even, of one perhaps, being closely associated, with a Brother in all, an Uncle too, a Teacher perhaps even, or even truly again, a Priest too in all actually [and with both in the relation actually, of the same Gender too really] [and all the talk again too really, of Female Priests in all truly], is actually truly too really, a South American practise actually [and not, Western in its origins truly].

Europe: Creed based relations

- the very popularized model, of people in all, associating with each, based on Creed even [i.e. Popular beliefs in all too actually], actually truly emanated really, from Europe in all actually [and not America even, and as most even, tend to believe in actually]. Relations in all too again, formed by those, holding similar beliefs in all too really [and as with the Religious even actually] [and again too, speaking of how diverse in all, everyday European life actually was (and as especially too, with regards really, to Commerce, Business, or Knowledge portals even actually)], and in most ways truly, made for rather interesting lives lived based around all this [with Knowledge Production in all too really, a mainstay Industry of old Europe actually, and in dealing too even, with the above issues (creed based beliefs) mentioned actually].

Africa: Power based relations

- the very popularized movie world version even, of general relations in all, being based around, Power in all too actually [and Sexuality too even], is actually really, rather African in its ways too actually [with relations in Africa in all too really, heavily based around, Power issues, and Sexuality issues in all too even] [with issues too in all actually, such School bullying for instance (and in America too even), emanating truly, from African influences there in all actually] [and in many ways again perhaps, attempting in all, to associate with the rich kid in class, the hot girl out there, or even, the funny/humourous kid too in all actually, and known to most out there in all really].

Asia: Locale based relations

- the very practise too actually, of only truly even, associating in all, with those living in ones Locale really (whether it be a Neighbourhood, a Community, or even, a Church based holding actually), and even truly, on associating even, with those outside ones Locale i.e. School, Workplace or even, Family Relatives too actually, always remaining truly bound in all, to Friends too really, one grew up with, is in all too actually, an Asian practise/phenomenon in all really [but one too, popularized by the TV, as being in all, an American phenomenon actually (and as with speak even, of American Liberty and Freedom too in all really)].

The Middle East: Colour based relations

- the very world too even, where Society in all, is viewed from the lenses perhaps, of Whites, Browns and Blacks too even, is actually truly in all really, a Middle East based phenomenon actually [but exported to America too in all really (and as with the case even, of modern California truly), where Colour relations in all, have become strained, due to not understanding, this practise in all too actually (and as with the case even, of California's 'race' based Gang wars in all too actually)]. In all truly, not only divisions based around Colour even, but actually, distinctions too, between same Colours in all too really [and as with different shades even, of Brown, different kinds of White too even, or even actually again, different 'textures' perhaps, of Black in all really] [and with a Middle East too, where Melanin content (and as with colour even), is in many ways truly, an identifier, as with regards too really, to bravery, sexual prowess, or even, intelligence in all too actually (and as with the case even, of the Middle East based accounts, of the tale of Antar too really) (which do differ in all, from those associated too really, with Afrique/Ethiopia too in all actually) (and with Antar in Afrique too, very much similar in all actually, to the 'Green Knight' too in all really)].

Afrique: Religion based relations

- when one speaks of Religion based relations, one is in all truly actually, referring, not only to 'Higher Beings' in all too really, but Religious practises too in all actually, and associated even, with Ascetic Religious Thought in all too actually [and with Ascetic Religious Thought itself, not only the true main way of relating in all within Afrique actually, but also in all too really, Religious practises (such as waking up rather early in the morning, or drinking green tea too even, or practising yoga in all perhaps), responsible too in all really, for whom one is perhaps, and as a 'Higher Being' too actually] [and in an Afrique too (and as with the concept even, of the 'Garden of Eden' in all actually), where all forms and kinds too even, of 'Higher Beings' in all, are to be found actually (and as with basic identities even, primarily too really, based around, ones 'Higher Being' in all too actually)]: